Even if a situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you. What they say, what they do, and the opinions they give correspond to the agreements they have in their own minds. If you take things personally, you make easy prey for these predators, the black magicians. They can easily tie you up with a small opinion and feed you what they want, and because you take it personally, you eat it. The second agreement simply says: don`t take anything personally. It can be quite easy to turn down rude or bizarre behavior from strangers on the street – after all, they don`t even know us well enough to be really angry with us personally. But what about the closest people? Those who know us? How can we avoid taking it personally when our partner makes a devastating remark about our behavior? What if our parents passively comment aggressively on our life choices? The fact is that it is because of the glasses we wear and our belief that the behavior that triggers us is both personal and true. It makes us feel angry, condemned, ashamed and a host of other unpleasant feelings. While we cannot control the words and deeds of others, we can try to regulate how we experience the situation. In addition to the book and audiobook, there is also an eBook, a four-color illustrated book, a map cover, and an online course.  Whatever happens around you, don`t take it personally. Nothing others do is because of you.
It is up to him to choose. All men live in their own dreams, in their own minds; They are in a completely different world than the one we live in. If we take something personal, we assume that they know what`s in our world and that we`re trying to impose our world on our world. Now it`s easy to see why there are so many conflicts between people. The world is populated by billions of dreamers who are unaware that people live in their own world and dream of their own dream. From the point of view of the main character, who is her only point of view, everything revolves around her. When the secondary characters say something that doesn`t fit their story, they get so angry and try to defend their point of view. They want the secondary characters to be what they want, and if they aren`t, they feel so hurt. They take it all personally. With this awareness, you also understand the solution.
It`s something so simple and logical: don`t take anything personally. If you get into the habit of not taking anything personally, you don`t need to rely on what others do or say. But all your life, you assumed that other people knew you so well, and if they hadn`t done what you expected of them, you took it personally, reacted angrily, and used the word to create a lot of conflict and drama for nothing. .